Everyone is Renee Yvonne The Gen SeXologist. And this is the last week of May. So we’ll be talking about masturbation of course it’s masturbation month. And this week I want to be talking about toys that women ]can use too. This is one of my favorite topics. I love toys and I love sharing toys with people. So let’s get started. I’m just going to jump right in. I don’t want to do a pretext with them. Let’s just jump in. So there are tons and tons and tons and tons of toys on the market, and you can find them all over the place. One of the perks of what I do is that I will sometimes get to test toys out. Sometimes people will send me toys to test. Sometimes I’ll buy one and test it out. And we’re all very different. So I can’t say that what I like is something you’ll like or vice versa.
I can only tell you what my situation is or my opinion of it at the time when I use it.
So I’m going to start with one that was pretty popular a couple of years ago, it’s by a company called Tracy’s Dog. And you may have seen this floating around on Facebook. And this woman talked about how her legs went out like a goat and it, she like she levitated for a minute. This toy is amazing. Now it looks really large. It, it, it is pretty large when you look at it, but what happens is you with some lube, I’m a big fan of lube. I will say that all the time lube makes everything better. There’s lots of brands on the market. There is Woo lube it’s kind of a coconut oil base. I really like Sliquid they make a silicone and they make a water based lube.
You want to use a water-based lube on your silicone toys that they don’t eat through the toys. So put a lube on these toys on this end, and this one goes inside and it can, depending on how your body is designed, it can hit your G-spot and vibrate. See there’s ridges on there that vibrate. And then there is the, is that this is the clitoral part, and you’ll have to play around and kind of adjust this a little bit. You want to get that on your clitoris. And it kind of does a sucking motion, a sucking, vibrating motion on it. It is fabulous. And one of the things that are great about all the toys I’m going to show you today is that they are all rechargeable. I’m going to challenge you. Ladies, get rid of battery-operated toys now, because I’m a great big environmentalist, but because there’s nothing worse than being in the middle of a masturbating session and your battery dies and that it just makes you want to throw things at people.
And that aren’t there so much. You want to throw this away. So get rechargeable toys. Are they a little bit more expensive? Yes. Are they working? Yes. because they just aren’t. They last a long time they’re made of usually medical grade silicone. They feel good. They’re smooth and they’re body safe. So this is Tracey’s Dog. I don’t remember the exact name of this, but this is an amazing toy clitoral stimulator. Awesome.
G-Spot there’s another toy that I really like is by a company called Satisfyer. And this is called the Curvy 3. And I like this toy because again, it’s also a clitoral suction toy. I like little sections, both like little section. So it kind of simulates oral sex in a way sort of, but it just kind of blows or sucks on the clearest. And it’s just, it just feels amazing. This toy is great because you can use it in between bodies. So if you are a woman who is with a man, a penis owner, you can lay it down between the two of you and still use it. And it’s not very obstructive. This would also get very powerful about vibrations. What’s awesome about this toy is that it has an app with it, and you can set this app to different vibrations. You could give it to your partner and they can set the vibrations for you. It will even connect to your Spotify or your Apple music account and play. It will vibrate according to the music that you play, if that’s what you’re into. So very cool toy, very cool design, also rechargeable. It has these little electrodes at the end, and you can charge it that way. It takes maybe an hour to fully charge. It lasts maybe an hour. So it’s great toy for that. The Satisfyer Curvy 3.
This one, I do not remember the name. I’m so sorry, but I will put the link below. This toy is also great for clitoral stimulation. Most of us, and I’m doing a lot of clitoral toys because most women climax through the clitoris and unfortunately in penis and vagina sex, most men don’t have something that’s, you know, on their penis that can stimulate the clitoris. And so a lot of women are just kind of like blah and sometimes about sex because it’s not hitting a spot that feels really good to them. This is one of those. So this one is you see the little ball on here. You can get it right on the quitters. If that’s where you want, it also comes with a, another attachment. This one is good for nipple play. You can also use it on a clitoris as well. It would just kind of clamp on the clitoris like this. So this is a clitoris. It could use the tip, sit on a hood like this and stimulate it that way. It’s a wonderful toy if you like it. And because it’s so concentrated right in that spot, it makes orgasms very quick.
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The next one I’m going to share with you is called the We -Vibe Nova 2. I believe this was nice too. Again, G-spot stimulation here. This will sit on your clitoris here. It’s bendable, so you can adjust it to your body. Okay. Again, it’s also, it also has an app with it. You can connect it to your phone and it will play different vibrations for you. It won’t connect to your Spotify account, but it does have its own set of vibrations that you could use for it. And again too, it’s rechargeable. You see the electrodes on the back so you can recharge it. And this one is nice because it is adjustable. It doesn’t just assume that everybody is the same. So if your G-spot is a little sits back a little further with sits up a little closer, you can adjust it that way and then also adjust the on.
And that’s what makes this one unique. It’s a design that a lot of companies have not really thought of. As you can see, the rest of them are pretty rigid is just like, this is what you get. So that We-Vibe really thought about that when they made this one.
And last but not least, I’m going to talk about anal stimulation. This is often a taboo topic, but the anus has a lot of nerve endings in it. And a lot of people don’t ever think about it. They’re just like, ah, nothing back there and stuff comes out. I get it. But you might want to try anal stimulation. This is a tapered, anal plug it’s pretty thin. Again, a lot of lube. The anus is not self lubricating like the vagina. So you’re going to need a lot of lube and you can just try with the tip, see how it feels.
You can try this and like play with it, try this and try this on your clitoris. You know, try this and try this, but play around with what can work for you.
Now. This is the only, I, I know, I just said, get, get out of battery operated toysThis is the one battery operated toy that I have, I haven’t found one. I haven’t purchased one, that is that is rechargeable yet. But I still believe you should get a rechargeable one, even though this is a battery operated one. Also make sure most of them have this. Make sure it has a flares on it like this, because the anus is a canal and you don’t want to get anything lost in there. You’ve probably seen those stories of like gerbils and things like that. He was sticking things in their anus and then they get lost in they’re in the hospital and then their embarrassing news story.
So make sure you get one that has flairs on it so that it won’t just go all the way in, but this is something that you can also play around with it. See what you like and what those good. You might find like anal play does feel pretty good to me. I never thought about it, but I like it.
And this is the thing I want people to know about sex. If you don’t like it, you try it out and you hate it. Don’t do it again. That’s it it’s that simple. You don’t have to keep doing things that don’t feel good to you. You don’t have to keep doing things that you don’t like. Just say, you know what? I didn’t like that, that wasn’t for me try that thing in my anus. And yeah, didn’t like it tried this. It was too strong.
Hated it. I mean, I have, I have a box of toys. I mean, I like, I have a trunk of toys and there are some at the bottom that I will never touch again because I think there are terrible. I just don’t use them again. It sucks because you spent the money. But don’t feel like it because you tried something once because you paid for it. You have to use it all the time. That’s not true. Just don’t use it again. And you know, maybe it was a little pricey lesson, but you know, you got to try something new. You tried something out, you stepped outside your comfort zone and that’s what sex is about. It’s about exploring and finding out what works for you. So I hope these toys were helpful. I could do toys for women and men actually probably for like four more videos, but I’m going to stop there.
Let me to put the links so that you can purchase these if you like from my store, because some of these are great toys to have to try out and check out. And if you’re interested or if you have questions, please feel free to drop me a line on my website, TheGenSexologist.com. I have a box that says free resources, and you can submit a question. It says, ask me anything. Absolutely. Almost anything. And you can ask a question there and I’m happy to answer those questions. In the meantime, I will see you next week. It’ll be June when we, when I come back and June is Sex Ed month. So I’m going to just be doing sex ed topics. If you have questions about sex education, about sex, as we get older sex, as we are on a medication or you’re going through something, a divorce, a death, an illness, please feel free to submit that on my website to TheGenSexologist.com in the meantime, have a great week and have a wonderful holiday. I’ll see you next week. Bye.
Find the toys I talked about here:
Satisfyer Curve 3, Anal plug https://sexpertconsultants.com/thegensexologist
Tracy’s Dogg Clitoral Vibrator: https://amzn.to/3unzWRH
Spiral Osciallting Clitoral Toy: https://amzn.to/3unX1no
We-Vibe Nova 2: https://amzn.to/2SyX42b
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